"Transformation Tuesday: Trusting the Path of Divine Alignment"

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[00:01:26] All right, my beautiful people.

[00:01:27] Well, welcome to this Season of Self Love, your daily dose of inspiration.

[00:01:31] I am your host, Nyomi Banks.

[00:01:33] And today's episode is special.

[00:01:36] It's a very powerful testimony to the magic that happens when we stay committed to our path of transformation.

[00:01:43] So as we transition from our year of domination and where we created over 200 episodes,

[00:01:52] and we witnessed incredible growth through our 60-day accountability challenge,

[00:01:56] and just healing beyond betrayal, and into the year of the rebirth,

[00:02:01] the universe and God is showing us beautiful signs of alignment.

[00:02:05] So before we dive into today's powerful story, let's take a quick break.

[00:02:09] And when we return, we will dive deeper into this episode, all right?

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[00:03:49] All right, so today we're talking about the power of aligned transformation.

[00:04:02] Very special episode for our Transformational Tuesday.

[00:04:06] But before we dive into this powerful story, let's create us a nice sacred space together.

[00:04:11] All right, so we can find a comfortable position wherever you are.

[00:04:16] Now take that first conscious breath in with me.

[00:04:22] Hold for a moment.

[00:04:26] Exhale out through your mouth.

[00:04:29] Now inhale deeply through your nose again.

[00:04:36] And release it gently through your mouth.

[00:04:40] Now as you take your next breath, I want you to feel yourself connecting to the energy of transformation.

[00:04:50] Just like I'm experiencing day seven of our cleanse journey, I want you to feel that clarity and that purpose for flowing through you.

[00:05:00] With your next breath, I want you to imagine pure light surrounding you.

[00:05:07] The same light that stays burning within us, even through our darkest moments.

[00:05:17] I want you to feel the light growing stronger with each breath.

[00:05:22] And feel it protecting your energy field.

[00:05:27] Feel it connecting to our community of transformation.

[00:05:34] Take one final deep breath in now.

[00:05:38] Breathe in strength.

[00:05:43] Breathe in courage.

[00:05:48] Breathe in authentic truth.

[00:05:51] Breathe in strength.

[00:05:53] And when you are ready.

[00:05:55] Really open your eyes, staying connected to the transformative energy.

[00:06:01] All right, my beautiful people.

[00:06:03] Again, if you are new here to the Season of Self Love podcast, it's something that we do every day Monday through Friday here.

[00:06:08] All right, so let's talk about synchronicity and alignment.

[00:06:12] Before I share this remarkable letter from one of our listeners, I wanted to talk about the incredible synchronicity that I've been experiencing recently.

[00:06:22] So what I want to say this, I'm going to pin this literacy wisdom.

[00:06:30] It's the seeds of understanding.

[00:06:33] Two powerful books have perfect aligned with my transition into the year rebirth.

[00:06:42] And that's Change Your Paradigm, Change Your Life by Bob Proctor.

[00:06:48] And it's The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield.

[00:06:52] Now, these two books, and if you just listened the first time, I'm going to repeat for those who've been listening and been following us.

[00:07:00] Y'all remember how to change your paradigm, change your life.

[00:07:03] It came to me.

[00:07:04] It came to me in the middle of October, actually October 23rd, 24th, I believe it was.

[00:07:10] And it came into a life where I really needed, I felt like I was stuck.

[00:07:15] But by listening to this book and accepting the 60-day challenge, it allowed me to truly understand what paradigm was.

[00:07:28] To understand not only my limited beliefs that I didn't think I no longer have, but I did.

[00:07:35] But also about my old patterns.

[00:07:38] You know what I'm saying?

[00:07:40] So it's like when your old patterns are like seeds waiting to be transformed.

[00:07:44] And I no longer wanted those old patterns to continue to keep growing.

[00:07:49] You know, I'm 52 years old.

[00:07:51] And even though I thirst for change, I thirst for certain things in my life, I knew that something had to change.

[00:07:59] It felt like I hit the ceiling.

[00:08:03] But listening to Change Your Paradigm changed my life, it actually opened up.

[00:08:09] It opened me up, excuse me, for other things to be able to receive other insights.

[00:08:16] Does that make sense?

[00:08:18] It also allowed me to birth new habits.

[00:08:20] So when I'm applying everything, especially what we're learning this year with the DVD principles and other things,

[00:08:33] I truly love that these two books came into my life at the right time.

[00:08:39] And let's talk about The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield.

[00:08:43] Never heard of this book ever.

[00:08:45] And again, I'm going to say this, and I'm going to have to contact her too, to let her know how great this book was.

[00:08:52] But one of our amazing guests that was just on last month, Shelley R. Warren, she told me about this book.

[00:09:02] And she said, no, you have to have this book.

[00:09:05] And before the new year, I took a few days and I read it.

[00:09:11] But it told me about so many things that was explainable for me that I was happening.

[00:09:19] It showed me about the power of conscious awakening.

[00:09:25] It reminded me about synchronicity, but it's also, it put them both together.

[00:09:30] But this is how we're going to use to help guide us through our rebirth this year.

[00:09:41] I cannot wait until this book will be a part of our, one of our first, if not the first, excuse me,

[00:09:49] book challenges that we're going to have because they're going to talk about the nine insights at stages of transformation.

[00:09:56] And all of this is just a connection to our spiritual growth journey.

[00:10:02] But that's not it.

[00:10:03] That's not, I'm telling you when things are aligned.

[00:10:07] Change your paradigm, change your life was aligned for me to understand what celestial prophecy was.

[00:10:18] Then one day, a divine connection, confirmation came.

[00:10:25] I was on TikTok, just scrolling, just scrolling on TikTok.

[00:10:30] And one of my favorite people, Mr. Clairvoyant, Chris, he's a medium.

[00:10:34] And he was doing his live show.

[00:10:36] So I figured, let me go on here, New Year's Day.

[00:10:38] Let me go on here and say Happy New Year to the soul family.

[00:10:42] You know, that's a happy New Year to the soul family.

[00:10:44] So I do that and I send him a couple of things.

[00:10:47] And he said, hey, vintage.

[00:10:51] Happy New Year to you, vintage.

[00:10:52] That's what he said.

[00:10:52] Happy New Year to you, vintage.

[00:10:54] And I'm like, hey, Happy New Year to you.

[00:10:57] And then before I knew it, he started giving me messages.

[00:11:05] Messages that hit right there.

[00:11:07] He said, now I'm going to share some of them with you.

[00:11:10] He said, okay, it's time for you to grow.

[00:11:14] It's time for you to go to that next level.

[00:11:16] That plan over there.

[00:11:18] Go, you ready.

[00:11:19] Go.

[00:11:20] Then he told me, you don't need nobody.

[00:11:22] Stop waiting for other people.

[00:11:24] Stop waiting for other people.

[00:11:26] Go.

[00:11:27] Go.

[00:11:28] You can do it all by yourself.

[00:11:30] If you can only see what I see and what they see, you can do it all by yourself.

[00:11:34] You ain't got to wait for nobody.

[00:11:36] I know money's tight.

[00:11:39] But go ahead and do it.

[00:11:40] Take it to that level.

[00:11:42] Don't be afraid.

[00:11:43] Take it to that level.

[00:11:44] And you know what I'm talking about.

[00:11:49] The funny thing is I was at my altar.

[00:11:53] That morning.

[00:11:55] And I was, of course, praying and asking for guidance and meditation went to my visualization.

[00:12:01] Now, he don't know that I just got finished reading, literally reading the Celestine Prophecy and Bob Proctor, change your paradigm, change your life.

[00:12:18] So when I go to tell him that this is what he was like, whoa.

[00:12:24] Psychonicity.

[00:12:24] This is how it happens.

[00:12:27] So make sure you're paying attention.

[00:12:32] Keep going.

[00:12:33] Don't wait for no one.

[00:12:35] You need no one.

[00:12:36] You are powerful.

[00:12:37] You can do this by yourself.

[00:12:39] You don't need another human.

[00:12:40] You know, and he was just speaking into me and telling me.

[00:12:43] And little bit, you know, I was waiting.

[00:12:49] I will be very honest.

[00:12:51] I was waiting.

[00:12:54] But that was my confirmation.

[00:12:56] Just like, no.

[00:12:59] Two books were sent to you to let you know that you are there.

[00:13:06] There's nothing else that you need.

[00:13:08] You're there.

[00:13:09] Go.

[00:13:11] Go hard.

[00:13:15] You the star.

[00:13:16] You this.

[00:13:17] You don't need nobody else.

[00:13:18] You the one.

[00:13:18] Go.

[00:13:19] Go.

[00:13:22] And then the other day, the other day, I had an amazing guest that I pre-interviewed for

[00:13:29] an episode that's coming up this month.

[00:13:35] And remember, I was telling you about my auntie and all those things that was happening with

[00:13:39] her on Thursday and Friday.

[00:13:43] This young lady was going through the same thing.

[00:13:46] And she had been canceling all of her podcast interview for the past two weeks.

[00:13:54] And when I tell you, when y'all listen to that episode, it was an amazing episode.

[00:14:03] But once we got off of there and she told me what was going on with her, we both sat and

[00:14:10] cried because I knew that it was divine timing.

[00:14:16] I knew that it was a line.

[00:14:20] I knew that God sent her.

[00:14:24] I knew a synchronicity.

[00:14:25] It was just so many things that would just happen.

[00:14:28] And in this whole conversation from the hour long show that we had and probably another 45

[00:14:33] minutes after just talking, it felt like a kindred spirit.

[00:14:41] Then I find out that she lives 20 minutes away from me.

[00:14:45] So we're doing lunch next week.

[00:14:54] But I remember one of the things that I asked for is surround me by immediate people here

[00:15:02] where I live at.

[00:15:04] So I can have a connection here.

[00:15:06] I have a connection with you all here, but in this community around here, like-minded.

[00:15:15] And what amazing connection it was.

[00:15:18] And you see how all of that just aligned together.

[00:15:25] But the thing is, is that I was open for it.

[00:15:32] And that's when we could talk about the DVD principles.

[00:15:37] DVD principles.

[00:15:38] If you're new here and you don't know what DVD principles, DVD principles, DVD foundations

[00:15:45] is what I took out of Change Your Life, I mean Change Your Paradigm, Change Your Life at Valproctor.

[00:15:57] And I felt that those were some of the needs that as we enter the year of rebirth, that I want to make sure

[00:16:03] that we establish those three core elements that will guide us.

[00:16:10] Because without those, without making a decision, without understanding what visualization is,

[00:16:15] without the discipline, it'll be hard to truly have that intimate relationship with ourself on self-love.

[00:16:26] Because you have to choose you.

[00:16:28] You have to make that decision.

[00:16:32] And you have to understand what you're visualizing your life to be.

[00:16:41] But also take the actionable steps to do it.

[00:16:44] And that's where discipline came in from.

[00:16:47] And we did that last year.

[00:16:49] We did that last year with the challenges.

[00:17:01] We did it.

[00:17:02] So we made that.

[00:17:03] First, we did the deed.

[00:17:04] We made the decision to do the challenges.

[00:17:10] But then we set it in and we understood and we visualized what it would look like after we were done.

[00:17:16] And then us doing, after we're doing a challenge every day, whether it was the 10-day book challenge

[00:17:23] or the 60-day accountability challenge, there was a, every day there was a thing that was happening.

[00:17:31] So that was creating discipline, consistency.

[00:17:35] You understand?

[00:17:42] So again, let's expand on anatomy power of decision.

[00:17:47] So when we talk about decision, the first D in the DVD principles, we're talking about those soul-level moments that change everything.

[00:17:57] So let me share something that happened during my 60-day accountability challenge.

[00:18:05] I remember having one of those days, you know, when you have to, when it clicked off and you don't, you just don't want to get up.

[00:18:14] And dude, you just feel in just, ugh.

[00:18:17] So I had to make a conscious choices like, okay, am I going to keep doing this or am God, I'm going to stop?

[00:18:24] When I made that commitment, that commitment was a part of that decision.

[00:18:29] And that was the decision that I wanted to change.

[00:18:32] Not only did I want to be accountable to my sister, but I also made a decision to be accountable for myself.

[00:18:40] Because I knew the prayer that I prayed a month before that, that I asked for guidance, that I asked for a message, that I asked for him to send something to me.

[00:18:54] And this is what he sent.

[00:18:57] Change your paradigm, change your life.

[00:19:01] And this is like after 30 days.

[00:19:06] So it's like, how dare you stop?

[00:19:08] You got to keep going, girl.

[00:19:09] This is me talking to myself and breaking down on everything.

[00:19:16] But also what that showed me is that little Perry, she right there, right there.

[00:19:22] Little Perry is my old paradigm.

[00:19:26] Old habits.

[00:19:28] I had to tell her to go sit down somewhere.

[00:19:33] You know, like, no, we got this.

[00:19:35] We're doing something different right now.

[00:19:38] I know it doesn't feel right.

[00:19:40] And I'm talking to Miss Perry.

[00:19:42] I know it don't feel right in your body, but trust and believe me.

[00:19:45] Trust in what I'm going to do.

[00:19:47] It's going to feel good in a minute.

[00:19:49] Because we're going to have a whole new style going on.

[00:19:52] Does that make sense?

[00:19:58] But what it does, when you do go through that transformation and just having that clarity.

[00:20:04] And being on that high frequency, it feels so, so, so good.

[00:20:11] I remember sending this text to my sister about how I love being on that high frequency.

[00:20:17] And I think I talked to a few of the listeners back and forth.

[00:20:20] And we talk about that high frequency.

[00:20:22] And I told her, like, I love just riding those waves of frequency.

[00:20:29] You know what I mean?

[00:20:30] I told her that my knees, you know, got my knees bent ready to, you know, flow like I'm surfing.

[00:20:38] You know, I got my back leaned back.

[00:20:41] You know, as a swaying.

[00:20:43] You know, allowing my body to be balanced.

[00:20:48] You know, so when I think about going into the year of new birth, rebirth.

[00:20:55] I have to understand, too, again, is that I'm still on that frequency.

[00:21:01] But understand that it does flow.

[00:21:04] And it flows.

[00:21:05] It got a nice little up and down rhythm.

[00:21:07] But my thing is this.

[00:21:09] I'm not going to allow mine to dip too low.

[00:21:11] Does that make sense?

[00:21:12] I'm not going to let my frequency dip too low and go too high.

[00:21:16] I'm going to keep it to where it's flowing.

[00:21:18] And it's going to do it easy.

[00:21:22] Easy flowing.

[00:21:23] It's just going up.

[00:21:24] Changing.

[00:21:25] You know what I mean?

[00:21:26] So everything could be harmony.

[00:21:28] So it could just harmonize with each soul, each part of my body.

[00:21:38] But I got a letter from one of our listeners that I want to share with you all.

[00:21:44] And this is why I truly wanted to do this episode.

[00:21:52] And getting that letter, it was just so aligned with everything that was happening that day.

[00:21:59] Well, before that two days and then Clairvoyant Chris.

[00:22:03] And then here I go opening the letter on New Year's Day.

[00:22:09] And it was actually from one of our listeners.

[00:22:11] You heard from him before.

[00:22:14] Jay is his name.

[00:22:17] And he had wrote me back in April.

[00:22:21] And he had shared that he was just new to the podcast, to the season of self-love.

[00:22:25] And that he liked everything I was sounding so far.

[00:22:29] And he's actually helped us with a little, it was like a map.

[00:22:33] It was a compass.

[00:22:34] That's what it was.

[00:22:35] It was a compass that we used for one of the practices that he shared with us.

[00:22:39] And he came back with an amazing letter.

[00:22:43] And so within this letter, there were several different things that I'm going to make aware to you all, okay?

[00:22:53] So I want to warn you that this is a very long letter.

[00:23:02] First of all, it's a very long letter.

[00:23:05] And, but it's a very powerful letter.

[00:23:08] Which truly shows Jay's journey, his beautiful journey.

[00:23:12] And it demonstrates, and this is the thing, when reading this letter, it demonstrated some of our DVD principles.

[00:23:20] And I'm going to share that with you after I read this letter.

[00:23:24] All right, so this is a letter from Jay.

[00:23:26] And he said, Happy New Year, Naomi.

[00:23:27] I wanted to reach back to let you know I finished all of season one of the season of Self-Live.

[00:23:34] And to tell you not only how much I love your show, but how important listening to your episodes have been in grounding me during a dark time in my life throughout 2024.

[00:23:48] I was fired from my job back in October.

[00:23:51] And I am working on selling my home that I can no longer afford.

[00:23:56] Each mortgage payment is cutting into what little I have until it's sold.

[00:24:00] But listening to your show helped me feel less alone in these experiences.

[00:24:06] And also provided me with perspective and affirmations to find my determination, my resilience, and courage within me to grow through these challenges.

[00:24:17] Yes, this is another long email.

[00:24:20] But something in my spirit felt good about spending my New Year's Eve sharing a few parts of my story and releasing these experiences with someone I respect and I admire.

[00:24:30] And I appreciate you whether you read through all of this or not.

[00:24:35] It reads, today I finished the last episode, the last two episodes.

[00:24:40] The impeccable word of understanding and appreciation.

[00:24:44] And I deeply appreciate your discussion on how we cannot control how others will receive us when we communicate our most authentic self.

[00:24:54] And he goes on to say, I experienced that multiple attachment ruptures as several lost friends as a result of my finding the courage to speak my truth.

[00:25:09] He then goes to say, take responsibility and accountability for what I say and embody the power within my words.

[00:25:18] He says, I realize that now how people receive you will shape their perceptions of you, which they ultimately use to craft a narrative about who you are in attempt to author your story.

[00:25:32] He says, also know now that their narrative efforts will never be as strong as our more powerful than our own self-love.

[00:25:45] And he said, I thank you so much for strengthening and guiding my self-love journey with your wisdom and the healing attentions of your spirit.

[00:25:55] He said, your episodes have been so meaningful for me in unapologetically loving to the very core and essence of who I am.

[00:26:16] And I learned how powerful and empowering it was to have been to remain so true to self.

[00:26:35] Once authenticity will become a threat to those who shapeshift who they are because they will always inevitably realize that they cannot cosplay another person's genuine spirit.

[00:26:53] There will be no mask in their collection that they can wear when they sit across a genuine authentic person.

[00:27:00] They cannot bring vulnerability and authenticity to the moment because they have misunderstood soul searching within themselves.

[00:27:10] I have accepted that to lose these kinds of friendships and work connections and blessings.

[00:27:18] And redirection and protection of one's peace.

[00:27:20] And even if that redirection is initially painful.

[00:27:25] There are only so few souls that are fully aware and so many, many others that souls search by looking out towards other spirits as a host to be the goodness, the light and the grace that should aim to be in their own life.

[00:27:42] They outsource that responsibility so that they can continue to embody that devil residing within themselves.

[00:27:52] And I appreciate so much of what you have experienced within all of the lives that you live in this lifetime.

[00:28:00] You have been so many different people while always working on being true to your core values in self.

[00:28:07] Demonstrating so much determination and resilience in the face of so many challenges to your essence.

[00:28:14] And yet you have not lost your light.

[00:28:16] I respect yourself, love journey, because I know your light must have irritated the darkness and the inner demons of so many of those people you met on your path that were unplugged, unaware, who actively choose to operate in low frequency and vibration.

[00:28:37] I have realized this year that my light was triggered self-preservation in the demons of those who are consumed by and identify with the weight of their trauma.

[00:28:48] You are an inspiration to not let others deter me, author my story or take me away from my attendant path.

[00:28:58] He then goes to say that I was hired and promoted to do social justice work and due to laws created by the state elected officials that changed radically at Florida public colleges and university.

[00:29:10] And instead, I was expected to become a human resource professional out of scarcity, necessity and survival.

[00:29:19] But this led me down a painful path brought about by circumstances that were outside of my control, yet completely ended what I thought can be my purpose in a higher education.

[00:29:32] I was fired for showing solidarity with someone who has been discriminated against by authority figures.

[00:29:41] The same authorians that taught me a powerful lesson about distinguishing between people who call themselves leaders and people who are really high ranking followers.

[00:29:54] People who protect other abusers of power in an organization that protects their paycheck.

[00:30:01] I am proud on how I spoke my truth within the moment I was fired.

[00:30:08] I may have burned a bridge, but when I have sat so long in the darkness, cast it on that bridge, I realized that sometimes you have to set it ablaze.

[00:30:19] So that light from that burn can guide you towards your intended path.

[00:30:25] And then he goes on to say, Dr. Will's sentiment of the soul reflecting of our ability to make meaning of human experience, it resonated with me.

[00:30:36] I am appreciative and grateful to have my light still continue to shine within myself after so much pain in the last five years since my divorce in 2019.

[00:30:48] I have appreciated because I have soul all throughout how I make meaning in my life.

[00:30:57] And as Dr. Will said in the season finale, thank you.

[00:31:03] I needed you.

[00:31:06] I honor myself in you through my own commitment to my spiritual health.

[00:31:13] And I am looking forward to just living the life that I deserve with the love for myself.

[00:31:20] And that you have continued to inspire.

[00:31:22] I appreciate you for sharing your heart.

[00:31:25] I appreciate you for walking in your purpose and being divinely guided to make your own space for your success.

[00:31:33] And I remember during the finale that you indicated that you learned to be safe with yourself and to let go of fear.

[00:31:41] This is aligned with my own parallel journey as I have added courage to the core values.

[00:31:49] So that I've at last reached out to you.

[00:31:51] A core part of my journey has been and continue to be embodied and most empowered sexually and sensual self.

[00:31:57] I am grateful to say that one day I inspired to be a content creator of my own, a path that is at the intersections of, intersections of sexual healing, racial healing, and spiritual healing.

[00:32:13] To make sexual content, sexual content that nourishes the spirit and can also educate others as to how to love themselves and others as the sexual and sensual beings they deserve to be.

[00:32:28] I will find my own path as I strengthen my relationship with myself and continue to cultivate the courage to release fear and walk within my purpose.

[00:32:37] Just as you have done throughout your career.

[00:32:39] I am proud to say I find belonging with you.

[00:32:43] And I am so proud of you for having made your space in doing what you love.

[00:32:48] I hope you have a wonderful New Year celebration and that 2025 is filled with abundance of joy and the sense that you deserve.

[00:32:55] I promise to reach out back again when I finish season two, which I'm looking forward to because I see that you dedicated September of this year to understanding process and releasing so much of complexity associated with betrayal and healing from that.

[00:33:14] I need that.

[00:33:15] So as always, your show is right on time, even if I'm not caught up.

[00:33:20] Much respect, Jay.

[00:33:26] First again, I thank Jay for that letter.

[00:33:29] And I'm going to tell you this.

[00:33:31] When reading that letter, that letter was so amazing, but it came right on time.

[00:33:36] It was just another defined confirmation for the show me that things were aligned.

[00:33:42] Synchronicity in all was all together right for me.

[00:33:45] I can say it brought tears in my eyes, but no, I was boohoo crying.

[00:33:57] But what I want to, I want to emphasize a free important portion of this letter that he talks about.

[00:34:04] About finding strength through paradigm shifts.

[00:34:06] And he ain't even got to season two yet.

[00:34:13] Him staying disciplined and authenticity, visualize his new path, making powerful decisions.

[00:34:19] Emily.

[00:34:23] And this was only in season one.

[00:34:25] This is before we got to the good, good shit.

[00:34:34] Family, as I read Jay's words, I was struck.

[00:34:38] I was struck on how perfectly this demonstrated our DVD principles in action.

[00:34:46] Can y'all see that?

[00:34:49] First, let's talk about decision.

[00:34:53] You know, that moment when we plant our feet firmly in truth.

[00:34:58] And for his decision, when he said I was fired for showing solidarity with someone who had been discriminating against my authority figures.

[00:35:07] I am proud of how I spoke my truth within the moment I was fired.

[00:35:12] So he made a conscious decision to speak his truth.

[00:35:16] He decided I'm going to speak my truth.

[00:35:17] But he also started, I'm going to burn this bridge.

[00:35:21] I'm going to burn this bridge down.

[00:35:26] Because he said, I said long enough in the darkness.

[00:35:34] And he says, I realize sometimes that you have to set it ablaze.

[00:35:39] Come on, y'all.

[00:35:40] So the light from the burn can guide you toward your intended path.

[00:35:48] Hello.

[00:35:52] When I tell you how powerful and aligned this letter is not only to me, but to you all as well.

[00:35:59] So you see, just like the Celestia prophecy that I told you a little bit about, when they talk about those moments of clearing now, Jay's decision to speak his truth wasn't just about that moment.

[00:36:17] It was about choosing authentic power over false security.

[00:36:26] This is what I've been experiencing.

[00:36:29] Similar clarity during my seven days of cleanse.

[00:36:35] And from that powerful decision, Jay shows what happens when we allow ourselves to truly visualize our path.

[00:36:45] A new path.

[00:36:47] So when he writes, I am grateful to say that one day I aspire to be a content creator of my own.

[00:36:54] A path that is at the intersection of sexual healing, racial healing and spiritual healing.

[00:36:59] I will find my own path as I strengthen my relationships with myself and continue to cultivate the courage to release fear and walk with my purpose.

[00:37:12] That's him understanding his visualization.

[00:37:17] The V in our DVD principles and our DVD foundations.

[00:37:24] This year is all we're going to talk about.

[00:37:26] That's going to be in the core of every conversation that we have.

[00:37:29] And what this does is remind me that we've been discussing about energy fields and seeing possibilities.

[00:37:39] So when we clear our spirit is space like, and we're doing it in cleanse, our vision becomes sharper and more aligned.

[00:37:49] But also vision without discipline is just a dream.

[00:37:54] So listen to how Jay describes his daily choice to remain authentic.

[00:38:00] When he says, I had to learn the hard way this year that people will put on a mask and put on a show.

[00:38:06] But that I do not have to play their games.

[00:38:10] I learned how powerful and empowering has been to remain so true to self.

[00:38:18] There will be no mask in their collection.

[00:38:21] That they can wear when they sit across a genuine, authentic person.

[00:38:26] And so family, this is what real discipline looks like.

[00:38:30] Not just doing things, but being true to who you are.

[00:38:34] You see, during this cleanse journey, I'm learning how discipline creates freedom.

[00:38:41] And when we combine all these elements, the decision, the visualization in a discipline, we experience true paradigm shifts.

[00:38:55] And listen to this.

[00:38:57] Listen to this profound resolution.

[00:38:59] When he says, I realize now how people receive you will shape your perception of you.

[00:39:05] Which they ultimately will use that crap to narrate about who you are in an attempt to author your story.

[00:39:12] And I also know that their narratives and efforts will never be as strong as more powerful than my own self-love.

[00:39:21] Remember what Bob Proctor say that a lot of times that we live out other people's paradigm of us.

[00:39:28] It ain't even our paradigm.

[00:39:30] So when you recognize that, that's when it will allow you to know you can change it.

[00:39:36] That's when you say, okay, I'm going to change that.

[00:39:40] But also when he says, I accepted that to lose these kinds of friendships and work connection is a blessing.

[00:39:49] A redirection and protection of one's peace.

[00:39:52] Even if that redirection is initially painful.

[00:39:56] But just like the Celestine prophecy teaches us about energy awareness, Jay Journey shows us that transformation.

[00:40:04] And how it happens when we stay true to the light.

[00:40:10] Again, my beautiful people, this has been such an amazing journey for me.

[00:40:16] And I'm so happy to share with you all.

[00:40:19] But family, as we wrap up this powerful Transformation Tuesday, I am filled with so much gratitude for Jay's courage.

[00:40:26] Again, Jay, thank you so much in sharing his journey.

[00:40:29] And you know, as I sit here on day seven of my cleanse journey,

[00:40:33] I am reminded that transformation happens when we're brave enough to stay true to our light.

[00:40:38] Even in our darkest moments.

[00:40:41] So just as Jay found strength through authenticity, each of us has the same power within.

[00:40:47] Whether you're joining through the workbook, which you can download right now at the seasonofselflovepodcast.com

[00:40:53] or starting your own cleanse journey at the perfect time for you.

[00:40:58] Remember that the complete plan is in the workbook.

[00:41:01] Or simply taking these stories of transformation into your heart.

[00:41:05] Know that you are part of something powerful.

[00:41:09] So before we close, let me share something that the Celeste Prophecy reminded me of.

[00:41:14] Every connection, every story shared, every moment of transformation creates ripples of energy

[00:41:20] that touch others in ways that we might never see.

[00:41:24] Jay's letter is proof that remember, family, you can start your transformation journey at any time.

[00:41:30] This workbook is there to support you in the community here and to hold space for you in your own inner life.

[00:41:38] So until tomorrow, remember you are worthy.

[00:41:40] You are capable.

[00:41:42] And it's absolutely your time.

[00:41:44] Have an amazing day.

[00:41:47] Thank you for joining us on this journey of discovering and empowerment here at the Season of Self Love Podcast.

[00:41:53] Remember, embracing self-love is a continuous journey and we're so glad to have you with us.

[00:42:00] So if you enjoyed today's episode, please leave us a review.

[00:42:04] And don't forget to join our community on Facebook at Season of Self Love.

[00:42:08] Connect with like-minded individuals who are also on their self-love journey.

[00:42:13] Now if you have any questions or topics that you'd like for us to explore, we'd love to hear from you.

[00:42:19] Email us at seasonofselflove at gmail.com and let your voice be heard.

[00:42:24] So until next time, take a moment for yourself today and remember,

[00:42:29] you are worthy of love, joy, and all the beautiful things that life has to offer.

[00:42:35] Have a good one.