Transform Tuesday: Your Winning Season - Finding Victory Through Music and Faith

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Here Well this Season and Self Love, I'm your host now I'm Banks, and today we'll continue our special series where we break down songs that carry healing medicine for ourselves. Well, this weekend, as I watched the news and I was scrolling through my social media. I felt, I felt the weight of what's happening in our world, the toxicity, the racism, the corruption, and the desperation and fear, and it can feel so very very overwhelmed me. But that's exactly why today's message is so crucial. So while we're focusing on self compassion this month, I want to expand that compassion today towards outworld, reminding each other that despite on what is happening in the world, that we are still in our winning season. Today we are breaking down pastor Mike Junior's winning because our soul speaks directly to keeping the faith when chaos around us. So that's why I was playing that before, you know, as we get into it, because we are definitely in our winning season, even though it might look like that it's not, but it is. So you know, this weekend, while I was shopping, I was listening to of Course, by our practice, change your life, change your paradigm, right, we'll change your paradim change your life, and and something profound just that are to me about belief. When he talked about belief in his spiritual connection, it just hit me that's exactly what our world right now, not blind optimism, but that deep, unshakable belief that carry us through those storms. You know. But before we dive deeper into this conversation, let's take a quick break or right it is Sugurty, God is stumber being, Oh the season and stuff love podcast and we'll. Be right back. Washington wells into two focuses on healing always for me. If I look good, then I feel good. If I feel good, then I share the good. 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And if you are driving, I want you to keep your eyes on the road, but if you are somewhere safe that you can just close your eyes and you can just begin our meditation, all right. So I want you to take a deep breath in through your nose, and I want to just hold it for a moment, and now I want you to release it slowly through your nose. I want you to feel your body suddenly in this moment. Now, I want you to place one hand on your heart and your other hand on your stomach, and I want you to feel the steady rhythm of your heart beat, that rise and fall of your breath. This is your anchor. In chaotic times. Now, I want you to imagine a protective spear of golden lights surrounding you, and with each breath, this spear grow stronger, filtering out the world's chaos. While keeping your spirit protected. And as you breathe in, I want you to say sightly. I am winning, I am whinning, And as you breathe out, I want you to release any doubt about your victory. Now I want you to bring to mind one situation that's been weighing on your heart. Maybe it's something personal, or maybe it's what's happening in our world. I want to see that situation being held in your golden light. And then I want you to repeat after me, I am blessed even in the midst of challenges. I am winning, even when it doesn't feel like it. My victory is already secured. And what's meant to break me will make me stronger. Now I want you to take one moreti breathin, and as you release it, know that you are divinely protected, you are divinely guided, and you are divinely destined to what. All right, My beautiful people. All right. If you're new here too the Season and Steff Love Podcast, it is something that we do every day Monday through Friday, just to help ground us before we get into the topic of your hand. All right, some of beautiful people you know by practice. He talks about belief being more than just positive thinking. It's a spiritual force that can literally change our paradigm. It could change our reality. And as I sit there at my altar this morning, watching the news headline scroll this weekend, watching it cross scroll through my phone, just feeling all the weight, all of the pain in the world, and I understood something profound. You see, my beautiful people. It's easy to believe when everything is going right right. It's easy to talk about winning when you already ahead. But what about those moments when you wake up like what pastor Mike Junior sings to a bill on the dresser, tired and trying to keep your head up. That's where real life comes in. That's what we have to choose our winning season, even when everything around us look like we're losing. You see, Listen this weekend, as I was grocery shopping, I was listening to Bioproctor talk about spiritual connection to believe. So let me tell y'all what I usually do when I go into the store, to stores or crowded places. Sometimes my legs feel very heavy, just from energetic wise, And so I learned to tend to listen to something positive or something something that would just keep my mind focused to where I'm kind of like a block. It's a shield, the extra shield for me. I know it sounds. Crazy, but this is what I do. And so on this particular day, I was listening to Change your Paradigm, Change your Life I Bipracter, and as I was listening to him and he was talking about the spiritual connection to belief. You know, I had looked around at, you know, some of the people faces, and it just felt like everyone was carrying their own burdens, you know, their own fears about the state of the world. And that's what it hit me. We need more than just hope right now, we really do. We need that unshakable We need that unshakable knowing that Pastor Mike Junior is talking about, you know when he says, the devil already know I'm winning. I want you to think about that for a moment. It's not about waiting to win, It's about knowing that you've already won. See, that's what Bob Proctor means when he talks about changing your paradigm. You don't wait for circumstances to change to believe your belief changes. The circumstances. So when Pastor Mike Junior says everything's looking like I'm gonna lose, he says, everything looking like I'm gonna lose, working real hard and I'm trying to win. He's speaking to exactly where many of us are right now, looking at the toxicity, the racism, the corruption in our world, and it can feel like we're losing, right But that's exactly why this song found us today. So let me break down to medicine that Pastor Mike Juniors giving us. I want you to notice how the song starts off a walk up to a build on the dresser, tired and I'm trying to keep my head up. He's not pretending that everything is perfect. He's acknowledging the struggle. You see, my beautiful people. That's the first healing message. That's real victory when it starts with honesty. When we look at our own world right now, the division, the fear, the uncertainty, we don't have to pretend that it's not affecting us or watch what he does next. So now the next verse is he says, I gotta break the cycle. I gotta do it now. Normally I will let this break me, so I decided today feel that shift. See, that's the moment of transformation. That's when belief kicks in. Then he gives us this powerful linity. Woke up this morning. I'm blessed. Food on my table, I'm blessed, close on my back. Yeah, I'm blessed. I'm blessed. So, my beautiful people, this isn't just about positive thinking. This is a spiritual alchemy. So when you can find a blessing in the middle of the battle, that's power. But here's the part that really hit me this morning at my altar when he says never had a problem that couldn't solve, a mountain that he couldn't move. Think about that and a world that is trying to convince us that we're powerless. This is a reminder of who's really in charge. So let me share with you all how this song came to me. I was sitting at my altar, and as I mentioned before, throughout the whole weekend, I have been seeing all of the because I really don't watch news. I don't watch the news, but you see these different social media posts, and you know that little rabbit hole that doctor Will was talking about yesterday, I go down that rabbit hole sometimes. But when you're reading all of these things and you've seen the videos of different people posting these videos, it's very discouraging to the world when it just sees like everything is the mise. But not only that, when I look at the very person that majority of the country voted for our leader, I want to pray for him something. And I know you're like, for real name, yes I do, because I'm like, who hurt you? You and your side kick or whoever, who hurt you to where you want to cause all this chaos and commotion and devision. Who hurt you so bad that you have to try to make somebody because they're different ethnicity of you, they're different beliefs or the different gender, or different religion. When I think about this weekend, just listening to all of that and looking at my daughter, each one of my daughters there are ten years apart, thirty three, twenty three, well thirty three, then one will be twenty three and the next one will be thirteen, So they're basically ten years apart. And when I think about their future, when I think about their future here in this country, in this world, because this is not a united States of America thing. This is a world thing, and you wonder what who hurt these people? These are multi billionaires, multi millionaires, and you want to take away hard working people's social securities, veterans. You know, I'm not a political person. I'm not, but I remember on my other podcast asks i'my rigid Gap. I remember doing a show on politics and I had a guess on to describe and understand what we were truly voting for and how important was I vote. And even after the results came, I remember not going to sleep that whole. I don't even think I went to sleep for forty eight hours, and I remember my middle baby was very anxious, like in fear, and I remember telling all everything gonna be all right, Everything is going to be all right. And then when the results came out, I remember I didn't even watch you know how everyone watches the results. I didn't even watch the results. But then when I heard and I seen it, I remember just feeling it was like this goult brunching just in my heart and my chest. And then all of a sudden, my playlist played this song I Am a Winner, just when I needed and I was like, Okay, I got up, went downstairs, start cleaning up the kitchen, start cleaning up my house. Was just like in the mood, like okay. And then I said, you know what, it has to be a deeper message to what's going on, because I was thinking and no, Lie, I was thinking, there is no way that God was allowing this to happen. So there is something that we all collectively it's supposed to be learning from this. I remember when the results came in we found out who the winner was, and I remember saying, damn, we failed the test. This is the time that all of us should come together, no matter what ethnicity, what belief, what sex, what gender, what religion. This is where we all should have came together, and we didn't so earlier this year, Remember I was saying about the framework, about there is a deeper message. So I challenge you all, while you are living in your winning season, is to be open to see what that deeper message is. Because there are answers in that message for all of us. Well, we just have to apply them. Remember, as I always say, we are here put on this earth to serve one another. That election was us to serve one another to understand. We saw what was going on. It's unfortunate that things are happening right now, but I have to keep believing that there is a deeper message in that. And for me, that's why I'm so thankful that the Season of Self Love podcast that it is, because what it can do is it can guide me, it can guide people. It can guide you into tapping into your inner belief, into your faith that no matter what goes on outside of you, that you can believe and understand who you are. So then we can start making better decisions. That we could stop moving in fear and we can start moving in faith. We talked about that yesterday. Like everything. When I'm talking about everything, we've never seen that many planes fall out of the sky like this. Energetically things are changing. It's like, what's happening? So now we got to get each other. We got to get ourselves together mentally, spiritually, emotionally. We have to go within start trusting and believing in what we can do, what we can feel. So right now, I got us some few practical tips for you, all right, So one, I want you to acknowledge what your reality is right now and what situations are trying to break your spirit. Where does the world chaos feel overwhelming for you? And what mountains that you're going to right now that seems unmovable right now? And then this is your response. Choose your response. So for the what situation you're trying to break your spirit? You know? So what if they laugh in your face? Let it go? What does the world feel? World's chaos feel overwhelming to you? You just keep running your race and you keep believing. And what mountains seems to be unmovable right now? One day you're gonna come out of it. You're gonna be able to move with that mountain, if that makes sense. And then I want you to create a winning declaration. I want you to write this down. The first one is everything around me whinning, everything around me winning. The devil already know I'm winning. I cannot lose those three things. But here's the most powerful part. I want you to notice when he says, everybody round me winning, everybody round me winning. This isn't just a personal victory. When you declare your winning season, you can create a ripple effect. Your victory becomes somebody else's possibility. Your victory becomes somebody else's possibility. All right, So let me share this all with you and now I just saw this a little while ago, and this beautiful spirit, her name is t. S. Madison. She used to be a part of the adult industry, she was in she's transgender, and just watching her growth, just watching her transformation in her move over to the mainstream, the way that she did is very admirable. And just watching her victory, watching her victory, it became my possibility. Does that make sense? Seeing another former sex worker that was very popular in her genera to be able to stand on stage just with Beyonce, to be able to walk in rooms with Beyonce RuPaul. Tamra Hall. Her victory is a possibility for me. And I hope that other people that is and that has been in an adult industry looking to do other things in their life, that is the possibility for them. For me, more of a possibility is that my foundation, our souls are not lost. That is a possibility for that that I know that that's. Going to happen. So when we're talking about when one person win, we all win it, that's the truest statement possible. Because watching that baby girl move, watching her move that inspire me just so much more. I ain't asked, you did everything first before I got to it, But hey, so somebody had to be first to do it. But also what that showed me is that door is open. It might not be as open as I might think it is, but guess what I can get small enough to squeeze through that shit. You understand what I'm saying. But in that instance, somebody else's victory could be your possibility, as your victory can become somebody else's victory. And I hope that y'all we're able to follow me on that one. So let me give you some more practical tools just to maintain your winning mindset, especially when the world feels so heavy. So first, let's create what we call a morning victory ritual. So, just like pastor Mike Junior says, I woke up this morning, I'm blessed, start your debut before you check those news alerts or before you go on social media, and here's how you do it. So we're gonna start off one with our sacred first five. I want you to wake up declaring it is my winning season. It is my winning season. And then I want you to list three blessings before your feet hit the floor and then next, I want you to speak life, life over one situation that's trying to break you. That's the sacred five. Okay, So now let's go to the next one, the news navigation strategy. So we got to navigate this. We gotta figure out how we not gonna allow that all to pop up on us like that all the time. So I want you to set a pacific time that you either gonna check the news or you gonna go on to social media matter of fact, some of those places that always bring that to you, and don't let it consume your whole day. For every negative story that you read. I want you to declare this, but I know how this ends. I don't want you to allow the unknown to bring you negativity because you know, I want you to say, no, I know how this ends. And then I want you to remember what bioproctor, where he teaches us about your paradigm, creates your reality. This is where that faith. That's where a faith come in that overrides that fear. Okay, And the last one, we're gonna call this the community victory plan. And it's so simple. All I want you to do is share your wins, no matter how small. But also I want you to celebrate other victories like they're your own. Celebrate other people victories like they're your own. And I want you to create a winning atmosphere wherever you go. So if your good girlfriend, your good guy friend, your sister, your mother, your friend, even your enemy, celebrate their victories like they're yours. So, my beautiful people, as we wrap today's transfer on Tuesday, I want you to hold on to this truth. Your winning isn't just about you. When Pastor Mike Jr. When he says everyverybody around me winning, he's talking about creating a ripple effect of victory. So I get y'all a little simon one. I want y'all to listen to Winning by Pastor Mike Jr. I want y'all to listen to that at least every day this week, the first thing every morning after you do your rich I want you to listen to that. And then I want you to journal your daily victories, even in the midst of challenge. I want you to be someone else's evidence that winning is possible. And I want you to use our year Rebirth work book to document your winning season. All Right, I write the beautiful people, I want you to remember that the world chaos doesn't have to the final say. And as Bioproctor reminds us about belief, it's not just a thought, it's a spiritual force. It's not just a thought, it's a spiritual force. And when Pastor my junior declares, never have a problem that he couldn't solve, mounting that he couldn't move, that is your testimony in advance. So until Tomorrow's Wednesday and Wednesday when we have an amazing guess but a beautiful transformation story, I want you to keep declaring your winning season. I want you to continue to keep choosing belief over fear. I want you to keep creating that atmosphere of victory because when you ween, we all win. I remember, beautiful people, it's your gritty got us some many banks here and you're listening to the Season and Self Love podcasts, and you have an amazing today, have a good one. 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