Transform Tuesday Script: "When Messages Lead to Decisions"

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I am your host, noam me Banks and family. I need to share something powerful about how messages and divine timing continue to show up when we are open to receiving them. Just after recording Friday's episode about divine timing messages, something profound happened that showed me yet again, how we're always being prepared for the decisions we need to make. But before we dive into this transformative and testimonial episode, let's take a quick break. All right, it's your gurt you gotta st not my Banks here on the season a Self Love Podcast. I won't be right back. Hey, it's your gurty. You got it now? Me Banks? It makes sure YouTube is three Thursday. Night as Nami Podcasts. We're talking about everything you love, sex, relationship so much do by bridging the g between them all and we even talk about this past for Monday. You need to stop by me and dot com as well. As the BeTV group. We have some amazing gifts to come and never know. Just make sure you tune met Thursday night, six pm sixty time, go to exlaim dot com and tell Amniami seat how every beautiful people. We'll welcome back to the season and Self Love. I am your host, Nami Banks, and this month it's all about new beginnings. But today it's transformed Tuesday and we are talking about when messages lead to decisions. But before we get into this topic, you know what we have to do. We have to ground ourselves before we get into this mess. All right, beautiful people, let's find our center together wherever you are right now, I invite you to close your eyes and just take that first conscious breath with me, and he deeply through your nose and release gently through your mouth. And with your next breath, feel yourself opening to divine guidance. And as you exhal release any need to control the path. Take another deep breath in now. Now, as you exhale, I want you to feel yourself becoming more aware of the messages around you. And as you excel, I want you to release any resistance to understanding. Now, take one final deep breath, breathing in trust, breathing encourage, breathing in clarity, and when you are ready, literally open your eyes. I write, my beautiful people, if you are new here to this se is in this Suffler podcast, It's something that we do every day Monday through Friday. I let me share what happened. I can live today right now. It's because I'm just watching how God works in real time. Is It's such an amazing experience, all right, So I had just finished recording Friday's episode about divine time and a message, and I was just feeling so grateful, and I decided to, you know, take me some me time. You know, it's been an amazing week of awakening of tools that have given to me. Just everything is bam bam bah. Right, So I want to go have me a nice brunch, you know, practice and self care for myself. So as I'm at brunch, me actually me and my husband, we receive a disturbing text from my youngest daughter. So it's about almost ten thirty eleven o'clock our time, so she's on her lunch break, but she. Text us about a potential threat at her school. Now here's where divine timing shows up. So for months she's been expressing discomfort at the school when new students come on a lot of new students that came in. But also just this morning, my husband and I have been discussing homeschooling again, and we were, you know, we were saying, well, we're gonna do it next school semester, you know, coming liter her finish out her sixth grade and you know, and seventh grade, we're gonna you know, talk about it over the summer and possibly do it, you know, for seventh grade. But this was our decision. But also in that process, because this is so funny, you know, I was talking about doing more network, opening up, doing you know, more conventions on the podcasting on the podcast side of things, and it's. You know, kind of doing more work, you know, knowing that. It's hard for us to do that now with you know, a mom being diagnosed with dementia so she's unable to drive and having you know, childcare at hall while he's working and I'm out of town working. And before we used to you know, be able to do that because we did. Have care for us before in my old lifestyle, you know, so we were able to travel a lot more. And so that was one of the reasons why it was like, Okay, that might be a good idea. She could trouble with us. We can have a you know, a tutor with us on the role and you know, a different thing like at homeschooling and stuff like that. Not knowing that that more early morning conversation would manifest into something of us making a decision, but also family, remember the incident I shared about the divine protection happening just blocks from her school. Remember, now I want you to look at this. Watch how the message metric helped me to process this moment. And let's break it down together. So remember I tell you to you about the three columns. So what happened, and let's talk about facts. I received a text about a threat, previous conversation about discomfort, morning discussion about homeschooling, and recent protection incident near school. So now let's talk about the initial response. We're going to go into the second column, the concern for safety. That was my initial reaction to protection instinct, called school immediately and headed to get her. And what the deeper message is, It's time to make that decision. Trust the science that we've been receiving protection through preparation and divine time and action. The crazy thing is that I remember sitting there and we looking at each other at the text that we received the texts, because it was several different texts that came through the phone, and I remember the look on his face, and I remember because I was eating something and I said, okay, I already know what the difference. It's time to make a decision. We just talked about this this morning. Let's go. I said, let me call the school, let them know what happened. What happened, and we're on our way. So I did that, and we got in a car, and I remember driving and I felt so calm because I knew she was protected in that moment, and so was the rest of the students. But I knew that it was time to make a decision. And we're only a week into school. Remember this is a new year. They just came back from what to Break. But I knew that this had to be made. But this is where our DVD principles appear. So I'm gonna unpack how that came up. So I'm gonna tell you. So the thing is is that what I just want to get to you, my listeners, is about the tools that you receive on our podcast or any other podcast that you are receiving tools from, about applying them in your life. That would truly make your life better. So when we're talking about self love, when we're talking about new beginnings, when we're talking about all of those things, we're talking about applying these into your life. Say so let's talk about the DVD Messages Principles. I'm sorry, So, decision our first d choosing to act on the message, making the homeschool choice, and trusting our intuition. Now, the visualization is seeing the patterns of the sign, understanding the protection and envisioning new path, and then the discipline taking immediate action, following through with the decision and maintaining trust and timing. I mean, what I tell you, Friday was something. Friday was something. It was something, and it felt like So when we went when we got her and we were you know, we were there at the school and you know, talking to the person that was in the front, and there was some more students there, and. How she received the message. She received the message from a friend of hers that said she was not gonna show up at school, that this incident was gonna occur, and her mother, her friend's mother had called the school as well and told her what was gonna happen. So when we go there, the person in the front tells her, oh, this happens all the time. Mind you, we never received the notice from school than anything like this is happening in the school. But I remember my daughter having telling me how uneasy she's feeling because of the things that she's hearing around the school, and there's a whole bunch of new students. I guess they integrated a new school into the school unbeknowns did not notify us of that as well. But hey, but all of these things that transpired, and I'm listening like, okay, this is what needs to happen. So we actually pull her out of the school. Then we don't withdraw her, We just pull her and take her home because she was shaken. She was shaking. Her friend didn't show up to school, and so. That this weekend, this past weekend, I had to spend time with her to explain everything that was going on and what will be our next step to making sure that she knew that, if anything, that we her parents were protecting. Her and that we heard her. I remember walking out the door with her, and I remember seeing no urgency of the school or anything, you know, and even just speaking with us the parents, and I remember walking out the door and putting my arm around her, and I probably I said I'm so sorry baby that it felt like I wasn't hearing you, I said, but I hear you now, And I said, you might as well say this is your last day at the school, And she said okay, and we walked forward and you know, we came home. But also, what when when I thought about doing this show today, this episode today, and my biggest concern was like, am I going to lose the understanding from my audience about the new beginning, about truly understanding what the new beginnings is? And even though I just gave you how I use. The tools, but I want to make sure that we are understanding and staying in the new beginnings. Theme of it. That's just me, That's just just me. But then I said, oh, wait a minute, this is new beginnings, so family, I need to share something profound about new beginnings. You see, when I first planned this month's content, I had a whole outline of topics. But God is showing me in real time that true. New beginnings aren't about following the present plan, thereby being open to divine guidance and brave enough to follow it. You see, through these experience, from last week's incident to the call with my loved one to today's decision about my daughter, I'm seeing that new beginnings require being open to messages, trusting that divine timing, having courage to follow guidance using our DVD principles in real time. Understand you that sometimes our plans need to do what to make a way. For God's plan. And the message matrix, the Divine Time, and the DVD principles, these aren't separate from new beginnings. This is what new beginnings look like when we truly open to transformation. Sometimes we have to let go of our outline so God can write a better story. Well, I sat with this. This weekend, and I remember even having conversation with Doctor Will on Friday and about our show on Monday, and I told him, I said, you know, I don't really want to talk about this on Monday. I want to you know, kind of go into you know, with intentions, you know, us talking about intentions. But I wanted to share this for Tuesday show. And he was just so he sat in a maze for a good ten to twenty minutes on everything that transpired during that week, and he was looking like what he said, this things that it's going to be amazing, you know, because it's just like all of this was just happening and just so open and aware to so many different things. But I also I want to go back to this one line right here because I am an outlining person. I am an outline taking note type of system. That has always been me from outline. That is how I learned how to write back in school. You know, you take those notes, you outline, you know, you put things in order, you know, you plan it out. You know. That is what I learned, and I brought that over to my work life all the time. But this is what I have to remember. Sometimes we have to let go of our outline so God can write a better story. So again I was I was so concerning. You know, I'm always gonna be very honest and transparent with you all because we have to be authentic and real in these conversations. But it's like, oh my god, hold on, I'm going away from it. And as I sit and I begin to start writing and putting this show together, and it just evolved. It was like Friday. You remember Friday, We was cooking up a nice little dish. Hey go another little tasty dish for Tuesday, and I just said in amazement. I was like, wow, so we're doing this, Yes, we're doing this. You know. The funny thing is I had saw. A post on social media, and this next segment is going to be about that, about gift wisdoms in real time transformation. I truly want to share something with y'all about profound about how transformation is. So the post that I saw was from Pastor Mike, and he said, your gift changes others and your wisdom changes you. And it hits so different for me. And that's because of the experiencing the truth in real time. I'm experiencing the truth in real time. Watch how there's some fault. Now, Watch how it's wisdom I folk for you. Okay, Day one, day one of her returning back to school. Day one, my baby returns to school. Day three, the first message a right, that's through my guests, remember the tools in the incident. Day five is my final message that comes clear. And for me, that was it to make a decision. A decision is made. But here's what's beautiful about this process. It's not just about making a decision. It's about paradigm shift in real time. When I sit here, I'm like, I can't make none of this. This all this is happening for real. Everything is happening for real, Seeing the messages as they appear, understanding divine timing, trusting the process, and taking a line action. This is watching and feeling my paradigm shift in real time, changing my habits, changing my beliefs, but then sharing gifts through experience, using the message metrics in real time, demonstrating the DVD principles in action, showing others on how to recognize signs, and being vulnerable with our growth. What this all does he it's equipping our children and family. Hears something that's so powerful. When we handle situations this way, we're teaching our children. And we're teaching our children on how to read situations, when to trust their intuition, ways to process the child lenges in the tools for their own journey. And this is what I mean about wisdom changing us. Yes to give to sharing these tools help others, but watching how they work in real time, that wisdom transforms me. And when my daughter see how we recognize the signs, how we apply the tools, how we trusted to timy, how we made aligned decisions, she not just getting protection, She's getting preparation for her own journey. Family. When I say. God is using me in all of these things, oof in real time, and can't you say chills? Can you say chills? So you know I'm always gonna have some practical application to it. So let's talk about how this Wisdom developed works. It's about noticing the plan, noticing the patterns. Noticing the patterns. They won the initial situation, Day three, the first clear message, Day five, final confirmation, decision, point, clarity, apply the tools. So we're gonna notice the patterns, and then we're gonna apply the tools. The tools are the message matrix, usage, the message, make strict framework, DVD principles, integration, divide time and recognition, action, alignment, and share the learning process with others. Document the journey, teach through your experience. And build collect the Wisdom family. Thus far at this New Beginnings have been. This month has been truly an amazing, an amazing journey. We only what two weeks, three weeks is not even yeah, amazing huh, amazing huh. But I just want to expand on this a little again because I truly want for you all to understand and even if you have to go back and listen to the previous episodes from this month, is just understanding the true New Beginnings in action, because I want to show you what New Beginnings really look like again. When I first planned this month content. I had to outline topics, all laid out, but God was showing me, showing us in real time that true new beginnings aren't about following the present plan. So look at how this month has unfolded so far, and week one and week one, we've talked about understanding messages in divine timing, the incident near school, the call for with my loved one, today's decision about my daughter's education, each moment building on the last, showing us that new beginnings require being open to divine guidance, trusting the process when it differs from our plan, having encouraged to follow through using our tools in real time, and teaching through our experience. Teaching through our experience, teaching through our experience. One parent to child, When my daughter watches how we how you? When your child watches how you stay aware of your signs her expressing discomfort for me, applying our tools, you get the message. Matrix trust in timing my recent incident, make aligned decisions. You see for us our daughter, she's not just learning what to do, but how to navigate these life challenges, to experience wisdom. Like Pastor Mike said, your gift changes others your wisdom changes you. And I'm going to show you how this works. Share the gift tools and framework, apply it in real time current situations, document the process, message matrix, extract the wisdom deeper understanding, and pass it forward to teach others. And this is why we share these stories here in our community growth. Other seeds are tools in action. Right you guys are. Hearing in listening to me tell these stories telling my real life experience. But they apply to everything. That we talk about here and added more, they allowed me to create new tools. That I could better understand for me, but also that you can apply them real examples to perf provides clarity, collect the wisdom grow and in our community, the community strengths. It's strengthen. So I have uh uh a practice for you. I don't know if I'm gonna put this in a book, but just write this down. So uh get your purpose paper and your purpose pencil if you're I available right now, and we'm gonna call it this the growth timeline tool. We gonna create a growth timeline tool. Day one situation appears. Note initial feelings, document circumstance, and record. Your intuitive your in tuition hits. Day three first message, track sign, track sign recognition, NOPE, pattern emergency, and document inside insights and in day five final confirmation, identify can clear messages, note divine timing, and record decision process. So those most of those are things that happen for me and for you. Of course your growth timeline will look different. But if you use these three day one situation appears, so day one of a situation that happens, NOPE, their initial feeling, document the circumstances to remember, go back to message matrix the facts, and then record your intuitive hits. That means, what was your initial. Reaction? What was your intuition telling you? Day three your first message? What's your first message? It might not even be day three, it might be day two, it might be later that day. But do y'all understand what I'm saying? Track the sign recognition That means track what's what's a coincidence? What I mean that that that looks familiar that you know MM, note the pattern, document the insights, and then final confirmation, identify the KIP, clear messages, note the divine timing, and record the. D decision process. Now, I hope I did not lose y'all on this one okay. Next is the wisdom extraction method. What happened, facts, what tools helped you your application? What was learned the wisdom and how to share teaching. Now, you know, I'm. Always as i'm'a give you some homework. Doctor Willis say, I don't get homework. I give uh? What did he say? I forgot what he said? But he don't get the homework. But again, I know, Naomi, this is supposed to be a podcast. Listen, but we learning in these podcasts. We learning, we learning new things, and we learning to apply them as well. We learning to apply them as well. We are learning to apply these as well. Help. All right, so let's talk about how this month evolution's connection. So watch how this month is actually following in divine order. Week one Foundation setting understanding the messages, recognizing timing and building trusts. Week two real application, using tools in real time, making aligned decisions and seeing results. Week three deeper understanding, extracting wisdom, teaching others and building communities. Week four integration combining all elements, creating sustainable practice and moving forward aligned. You see, this is new beginnings and not just learning new tools, but having the courage to use them. I cannot stress that so much and trust them and share them in real time. Because remember, family, sometimes we have to let go of our outline so God can write a better story. Now, that's what true re birth looks like. Remember, my beautiful family. Sometimes the universe in God has to make things very clear when it's time for change. Whether it's whether the threat materialized or not. That wasn't the point. The message about making the decision was crystal clear. Your free work book at the season and suff love podcasts that have it has these tools. It has the message matrix, the decision framework in it. So until tomorrow, my beautiful people, I want you to remember that you are worthy, that you are capable, and this is absolutely your time to shine again. I think I said it on Monday yesterday show, which was amazing. Again, I forgot to say it was so good to have doctor Will back. But I will make note of when I will add in the message matrix that I'm gonna try to do it later today to have it ready for either later tonight or tomorrow for it to be on again. I spent. The weekend, you know, getting things together comfortable for my daughter, and yesterday we actually went and withdrew her completely signed her up, you know, did everything at the at the school district and stuff like that. So we are now homeschooling. We are in homeschooling, and I look for it to be an amazing adventure not only for her but for myself and creating a deeper bond between her and I. So again, my beautiful people, just remember that you are so work, that you are so capable, and this is truly absolutely your time to shot. So have an amazing day. Thank you for joining us on this journey of discovering and empowerment here at the Season and Self Love Podcast. Remember, embracing self love is a continuous journey and we're so glad to have you with us. So if you enjoy today's episode, please leave us a review and don't forget to join our community on Facebook at Season and Self Love connect with like minded individuals who are also on their self love journey. 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